Sex on campus: How No Means No became Yes Means Yes – The Globe and Mail

Sex on campus: How No Means No became Yes Means Yes – The Globe and Mail.

…”It’s not politically correct to say that consent is complicated, yet here we are, 50 years after the dawn of second-wave feminism, still struggling as a society to define it. Consent gets muddled up in gender roles;”…

Close but not quite.

Consent is complicated because self Consciousness is still a fuzzy term. Once you’ve clearly identified ‘WHO, WHAT, WHY and HOW’ YOU ARE, THEN ALL IS GOOD.

REMEMBER SHAKESPEARE ???

2 B OR NOT 2 B

I AM
YOU ARE
HE IS…

JE SUIS
TU ES
IL EST…

CONTINUE THOUGH, THE CONVERSATION WILL BE GOOD FOR EVERYONE WILL THE DUST IS UP IN THE AIR AND A COMMON DEFINITION SETTLES BACK DOWN TO EARTH THAT EVERYONE CAN AGREE TOO AND LIVE WITH.

COME ON, PEOPLE IT’S THE 21ST CENTURY ! USE THOSE NOGGINS OF YOURS.

WHAT’S COMPLICATED IS NOT CONSENT ! YES OR NO !

WHAT’S COMPLICATED IS WHETHER CONSENSUAL SEX IS AGREED UPON WHILE SOBER – NOT UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF ALCHOHOL AND DRUGS WHICH THIS ARTICLE HAS NOT POINTED OUT.

THEY’RE OUT THERE AND THAT IN MY OPINION MAKES IT A WAY WORST MONSTER THAN ALCOHOL. WHY… BECAUSE THE ALCOHOL DISCUSSION HAS BEEN ON THE TABLE FOR A DAMN LONG TIME. STRONG TARGETED DRUGS MAKES CONSENT ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO REFUSE ! THEN THE ARGUMENT SWAYS TO WELL YOU SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER !

NOPE – WAY WRONG… DESIGNER DRUGS DON’T HAVE CONSENT FORMS YOU SIGN PRIOR TO SAYING ‘YES’ !

ONCE YOU’VE GIVEN CONSENT… ANYTHING GOES AND CONSENT IS NO LONGER REQUIRED UNLESS IT REACHES A THRESHOLD OF PAIN THAT IS NOT ACCEPTABLE OR TOLERABLE UNDER CIRCUMSTANCES THAT YOU WOULD NORMALLY EXPECT WHILE BEING SOBER AND IN CONTROL OF ALL YOUR MENTAL FACULTIES. THE REALM OF PAIN REACHES A BDSM THRESHOLD THAT REQUIRES EXPLICIT CONSCIOUS CONSENT WITH ALL THE SAFETY PROTOCOLS IN PLACE PRIOR TO DELVING INTO THOSE CIRCUMSTANCES. AFTER THE FACT DOES NOT CUT THE MUSTARD AND LEGAL STANDARD OF CONSENT – WAS THAT AS GOOD FOR YOU AS IT WAS FOR ME LEAVES WAY TOO MUCH CONFUSION IN THE MINDS OF THE PRINCIPLE ACTORS AND THEIR SPECTATORS(LAW ENFORCEMENT, COURTS AND MEDIA). NEVER MIND THE MEDICAL ARENA WHO STILL HAVE WORK TO DO ON THE PSYCHOLOGICAL SIDE OF THAT EQUATION OF THE STATE OF THE HUMAN MIND. TOO MANY OPINIONS OF THE DAY, BESIDES THEY WEREN’T PRESENT TAKING NOTES WHILE ALL THE ACTION WAS TAKING PLACE. AND IF ANYONE WAS, THEN IT’S A TRUE BREACH OF PRIVACY – RIGHT ???

FINALLY, IF IT’S COMPLICATED – REMOVE ALL THE LARGER CONSENSUAL QUESTIONS AND BRING IT DOWN TO A SIMPLER CRITERIA.

YOU CAN’T CHANGE HUMAN NATURE RAISED ON THE CONCEPT OF CAVEMEN DRAGGING WOMEN INTO THEIR LIARS TODAY BASED ON THE DARWINIAN CONCEPT OF SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST. THIS NEW CONCEPT OF CONSENT HAS BEEN SHAPING UP SINCE THE SIXTIES. TIME TO START PUTTING WORDS TOGETHER THAT FITS THE TIMES.

WHO KNOWS… IN 25, 50 OR 100 YEARS, THE CONVERSATION WILL TURN TO VIRTUAL CONSENSUAL SEX VIA DEVICES, THE INTERNET AND HOLODECKS!!!

WHAT THE HELL ARE PEOPLE THINKING IF YOU’RE NOT GETTING WHAT THE PORN INDUSTRY IS LUSTING FOR ?

BETTER GET THIS ONE RIGHT I SAY ! QUICK

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