Live~NRGY

Undoubtedly without having spent time in the Montreal Dungeon learning whole new tricks and getting up to speed on all things BDSM, especially in a gay environment, mere words, books and philosophical discussions on the good vs evil would have gone in one ear and out the outer.

I can certainly vouch for that having done exactly that working so many years in family businesses and having to listen to multiple ‘bosses’ all speaking in different tongues.

Ultimately since I was the ‘IT’ guy and having to put pedal to the metal to get work done, I had to make the final decision even when it was contrary to the instruction set. That said, I felt many times that it was one step forward and 10 back.

So here I am, going to talk about a slightly sensitive subject about males and preconceived ideas. In no way, do I want to diminish male masculinity.

Sorry, a work break to lend a hand.

In fact I think it’s quite sexy. Now for the information about a touchy subject(sorry the pun) – nipples.

They are regarded as the ultimate in terms of female sexuality when we speak about breasts.

The important thing here that I would like to mention is that they were a harder piece to embrace in my own sexuality because of their association with everything female.

You can just imagine my shock, dismay, intrigue, bewilderment and not quite sure what was going on in terms of my own feelings when I first discovered that they had another purpose other than just 2 knobs on my chest.

Took a couple of years for it to sink in and start making connections between my nipples and male sexual anatomy. If it hadn’t been for the Dungeon experience, it wouldn’t have sunk in. It was through repeated experiences that I started to make the connection.

Boy is it strong. Males have the same internal wiring as women in terms of nipple sensitivity. However, I believe that it is such a taboo subject that men go through a denial process about it. Call it a breast feeding backlash syndrome if you will, but the idea that men can pleasure themselves with all things nipple is foreign to 99 percent of the straight population. However in gay community, there are pockets if you will of men who experience ecstasy on just such a fetish.

The point here is this. While in normal sexual mode – straight, LGBQT or any other flavors, nipples play a role in arousal and experiences to varying degrees according to likes/dislikes and especially male concept of having them played with. From my own experience it took me a couple of years of repeated experiences to get it. Once I got it though, bingo – during playtime do I ever like having my nipples sensitively stroked or slightly teased. It increases excitation and arousal which helps with erectile dysfunction. In fact it even seems to bring out more maleness and the animal side for some reason and I haven’t put any effort into understanding that connection, other than waiting for time to tell me.

That’s the physical version – the point of this post is the following.

The nipples in both men and women once Consciously Aware and you are able to activate your Wheels of Life – Dharma Wheel and all your Chakras, but especially the Heart Chakra and the Wireframe Diamond Crystal, the nipples serve as FINE TUNING ADJUSTMENT BUTTONS just like on the old style TV’s and Radios.

One is for VOLUME the other is for CHANNEL adjustments. The trick is to keep it all together and still manage to stimulate either or both nipples while doing the whole thing in real time.

There might be a shortcut version, although I’ve kinda ramped down the shortcuts since I’m in new territory also having missed the subtlety of the Bicycle spokes and Diamond Wireframe thing. That’s the danger of playing with shortcuts. If you’re not a MASTER, the slightest smallest thing makes or breaks you.

Let me just add this last piece for the moment. I’m not sure if playing with the nipples prior to experiencing the main Heart Chakra Diamond Wireframe thing will work to activate it. What I’m saying is that in certain individuals it might. However, because you are playing with pure NRGY the physical experiences kick in only after the fact once you get it. I believe it’s a built in security feature against tampering by know it all dummies.

So go ahead, I know it’s new territory and the fact that nipples are there in men doesn’t diminish them in any way. In fact I think it brings out the female element that is vital in any personal A-SEXUALL experience for men.

I’m sure women have their own versions of something, but it eludes me since I’m so focused on males because of my gender.

Women have to get with it or else they risk not only losing a large part of their spiritual sexual potentials, but the persistent notion of them lagging behind and being inferior to men will continue incorrectly and unjustly.

Once men and women get their acts together, I believe it’ll be an incredible and exciting time in human history. Until then it remains a dream of mine in my heart.