Is it even possible to live a celibate life?
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-21654663
Celibacy = Single state of spending time with oneself in order to make full use of your own potential NRGY at any single point in time.
As with anything else in the Dance of Life & NRGY, it can wane or wax and doesn’t have to be a straight point from A to B. The InterMEDIATE points in between for whatever period of time serves it’s purpose.
The whole point of celibacy is this – you have your own full UNDIVIDED attention upon yourself without need for compromise with another’s own Dance of Life & NRGY. It is the singular use of one’s own personal NRGY for a purpose and intention. Not necessarily sexual in nature, but to accomplish your goal with the full use of all your potential NRGY.
Abstinence – in this context – SEXUAL is the Conscious Self Control of all external sexual activity with either yourself or others. As with everything else – the route one takes with abstinence depends entirely on where they are coming from with respect to personal beliefs and religious upbringing.
Way to long to describe all the possibilities here and really it is within oneself where that conversation is held based on all the possible information at that time. It is a personal Conscious Choice to Master Self Control on a Sexual level. There are no 101 classes on abstinence and in fact it is quite the opposite on how to get going sexually at puberty or as soon as possible sexually with peers. Media advertising being one of the most effective way to get that message across
As for masturbation – It’s real message has gotten screwed up if you excuse the pun. From a religious perspective, the message was meant to encourage not only proper behaviour in the form of mastering self control with sexual NRGY and urges within, but also as a means of raising the NRGY potential within oneself to reach a sacred state of union with your creator. Basically the abstinence of masturbation was a shortcut method to heaven for lack of a better set of words to use right now.
Especially for boys and men who masturbated frequently, the loss of semen and especially seminal fluid is tantamount to sexual suicide by the sheer pleasure of the experience. For men, ejaculation is the highest form of stress relief from internally built up tensions. Something like an electrical discharge between 2 points separated by a distance, yet so NRGYZed between them but have no choice but to make contact somehow. Hence an electrical circuit in the form of lightning if you will that does the trick. That is how intense it is for boys and men. Especially those with extremely high amount of testosterone. I should know, I was fed tons of it in the Montreal Dungeon in the hopes of getting my aggressive side to express itself physically through violence. Proof for me was the fact that I was having to shave my beard on my face at least twice a day and sometime more. Body hair growth was and still is extremely high. Facial growth has almost returned to normal pre-Dungeon status. You gotta know yourself to make heads or tails of all the clues once all is said and done. Just take notice of it in real time and file it away for future reference.
Anyways – back to masturbation for a moment. With self control comes something very important in time. Mastery of your body and it’s internal NRGY being expressed as urges. If you manage to control ejaculation, in time you manage to control your NRGY enough so that you can separate or divide the physical components of ejaculation from the NRGY components of ejaculation. You end up redirecting NRGY from the physical process just prior to physically ejaculating. Thereby conserving the most precious part of the process. Your body remains NRGYized and you can use this NRGY for whatever intended purpose. In my case initially keeping the organs in good shape and healing any blocked NRGY within them. Now with so much excess stored NRGY I can put this excess to use in better more efficient ways. Pear generation and the internal control required to do that work. That frees my physical body from the stress and fatigue of doing that. With time, it becomes second nature and once all pathways are opened up within the body, so easy it’s ridiculous.
The this is as always a catch 22 situation. The more you have the more you want. You need to setup reference points and boundaries to know when you’ve crossed a line and it has the potential to do the opposite of what you initially wanted to do in the first place.
All of these processes, are written down in many sacred texts and secret religious documents stored away in some deep dark and inaccessible places having lost their meaning in time to caretakers and their stewards.
One place I can think of off the bat is the UNESCO designation of Buddha’s original information being held in South Korea. Off limits but to a few, but those few are now only stewards and information seekers without a true understanding of what concepts are trying to be explained across. The reason is that we are looking at words and statutes but haven’t experienced the real thing in our bodies.
Without our bodies giving out clues, words mean nothing and really become Virtual and unreal. How could masturbation be bad when it’s used and done the right way? The exception to that rule is clear – no innocent or naive person, whether a child, teen or virgin adult should be corrupted in the ways of the world and in such a way as to corrupt their own natural innate potential nature. A person chooses for themselves their PATHS until such time as they can make corrections based on experience and understanding. It is immoral and unethical to teach something to someone who has less experience, knowledge and understanding then their mentor if that purpose is sexual in nature and with the aim to engage them faster into the real world. This is called bullying to get what you want from someone expecially sexual and taking advantage of that opportunity and weakness.
So how could you possibly be doing the wrong thing, if you are truly applying yourself in a moral/ethical way in seeking sacred sex. From everyone else’s vantage and point of view, based on words, books and immoral authoritative sources, God speaks the truth. We burn people at the stake pronouncing them warlocks and witches, evil seekers of pleasure. Yet those who pronounce and say those very words know not themselves what they do.
No wonder people get crucified. We as a human race have forgotten that we are created in God’s image and are afraid of our own shadows and the potential demons they carry.
In my personal opinion, priests are in probation until such time that they can accurately within a group’s definition Master self control. I really don’t care if that is within a married or celibate context. If that works, it works. Once the mastery of sexual self control is understood, then up to the next level, so on so forth. With each higher level, the refinement of sexual NRGY and it’s self control becomes self evident and well understood within more subtle contexts. Essentially with enough time, SEX the physical activity ceases to be required and it becomes all NRGY SEX if you will.
The term A-SEXUALL means just that. Master your NRGY by self control = MASTER your DESTINY. You have to but start somewhere and that begins with FOOD as the common root source of all physical things here on Earth. Understand your BODY you control your NRGY and Master your Destiny. Your Body is the temple of your soul, your spirit, your NRGY, from there the Universe becomes your PlayGround.
That is the true image of heaven on earth and God is within you and all around you. The rest is all trial and error until you get it.
The true test is the real life application of Self Control with temptation all around you. If you can pass through the eye of the needles and still manage to be able to thread the FABRIC of Life & NRGY together(inter-SEX-ed), then you have MASTERED your Destiny. Otherwise you still have work to do. Simple as that – work is work, no guilt involved get those wheels spinning.
BTW – once you get really really good at self control, speaking to men here, you can have multiple internal Orgasms that are a million times more satisfying than external sexual gratification by ejaculating. Turing that valve inward is alot of work and beyond the scope of me wanting to explain it. Consult Mantak Chia’s work for further details on the process.
One caution though is to have solid moral anchors. You become a human dynamo charged up with so much internal NRGY that it is easy to go off the rails. Keep it on track and find those anchors if you go down this route. It’ll save your ass and then some. Don’t even think you are superman who is strong than SEXUAL URGES. I’ve been lucky enough to have all the right stuff to dodge bullets, but that meant knowing what I was doing from extremely early childhood and using that as my moral anchors and pivoting point. If the need arises to ejaculate, then do so, you can thank me later when you understand why so many other spiritual adepts having fallen off the bandwagon and gotten into trouble. Temptation is the easiest to fall prey to.
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